A church wedding can be such an up lifting event. Not just for the Bride and Groom giving their vows to God, or the proud parents. But it also will give those in love who have come together the hope for the future. And those already married the chance to renew their vows within, and take a second look at why they love their spouse so much.

If you plan on having a church wedding, make sure to go there first before setting the date. Not only do you want to make sure the date you want is available, but you may also have to take a pre-wedding class.

Once you have a date for your wedding, you can start making plans for the wedding at the church. These are just some of the questions you may need to ask, before you commit to your wedding date.

Will it be a day or candle light ceremony? (times and days could be an issue)

Is the facility open to non-church members?

How many people can the church hold?

Is there a dress code?

Is there enough parking?

Will it be warm enough or cool enough for your guests?

What are the church rules to decorate? Do they provide any? Who does the clean up?

Will there be music? You do not have to have "Here Comes the Bride" playing as you walk down the aisle, I think everyone knows your coming when the music starts. Are outside musicians permitted to perform?

Will you need a runner for the walk down the aisle?

Will your flower girl be able to drop pedals?

Are there adequate restrooms, and accessible for elderly and handicapped guests?

How far in advance must I book your servies? What will it cost? Is there a deposit required? Balance due when? What if your cancellation policy?


Will your guests be able to toss birdseeds outside as your leaving? (rice is not bird friendly) Something to think about when it comes to birdseeds or even bluegrass seeds, is that the seeds are tiny, and guests may dump or toss handfulls over your heads. So you may need a rake to get them out of your hair if you are not wearing a vail. Tossing flower pedals are pretty and safe for all. Confetti, small bells to ring, and tiny bottles of soap to blow bubbles are other ideas.

Is there a place for the Bride and her Bridesmaids to change? And for the men?

How, when and where will the pictures be taken? Will there be a video?

Will you be writing your own vows?

When will the rehearsal be?

Do you need a candle or something else for the ceremony at the altar?

Do you have any restrictions or limitations on lighting, cameras, audio or video equipment?

You may also want to think of your guests on this special day too; with an area for them to meet before and after the ceremony. If it is going to be a hot day it could be nice to have some cold lemonade or iced tea, or for that colder day some coffee or hot coco set up for your guests to enjoy. Cookies and donut holes might be nice too.

Another idea for a hot day:
To help your guests from heatstroke, you could pass out pretty hand-painted fans at the time where the ushers walk the ladies to their seat. After the service you could donate them to the church for Sunday mass.

An at-home weding or reception requires great attention to detail. Everything will need be be rented, from the chairs, tables and more which means the costs will quickly rise.

Who will marry you?

Make the ceremony ultrapersonal by getting a friend or family member to marry you! The laws on this vary from state to state, but in many cases, anyone can become a licensed minister over the Internet.

The Kiss!

This is not the time for that mild-mannered peck some do at the altar! This is your first make-out session as husband and wife, so do it right with a long, slow, sexy smooch. You could even suggest that he dip you. If you do it right, everyone at the ceremony will want to kiss their spouse too

Thank you!

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